Why Do Women Think They Have To Have "Perfect" Things For Themselves?
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Why Do Women Think They Have To Have "Perfect" Things For Themselves? -
August 2nd, 2012, 11:41 PM
A "perfect" purse, A "perfect" hairdo (even though nobody else really cares about it), A "perfect" wedding (even though she has a 50% chance of divorce), A "perfect" paint color for the Baby's Bedroom (even thought The Baby does not care about it), A "perfect" little comment within a chatty conversation (even though it will be forgotten by everybody), A "perfect" outfit for an occasion (even though she still looks fat).
Even the chatty little response from a waitress after writing down an order for lunch, "Perfect!! I'll Bring That For You!", when it is her job to bring it for you. Lol.
So, What is it? Do they need to compensate for generalized incompetence by finding "perfect" little things which are superfluous?
Do they not realize that even if they get all of the "perfect" things they want, they will still be far from being "perfect" when it comes to:
1.) "Perfect" honesty?
2.) "Perfect" grasp of material reality in The World?
3.) "Perfect" ability to take care of even their own basic needs, without getting some guy, some employer, or The Government to help them? "Can SOMEBODY Help Me Here ... ??!!"
4.) "Perfect" responsibility for their screw ups which cost other people money, time, and resources? "Well, I Just Didn't Think It Would Happen Like That!!" "I Didn't Mean To Do That!!" "I Just Couldn't Help It!!" "I Was Just Trying To ... !!"
5.) "Perfect" integrity in decision making? "I Just Wanted To Change My Mind!!" "I Just Forgot To Ask About That ... !!" "I Didn't Think It Mattered!!"
So, should we sympathize and go along with these women who think they must have "perfect" things, when their "need" for it is just spurious and self centered?
The only answer I can think of is that they otherwise would start crying and shrieking. Lol. Especially if they are in PMS or menopause.
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August 2nd, 2012, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Shelli
So, should we sympathize and go along with these women who think they must have "perfect" things, when their "need" for it is just spurious and self centered?
No. I do my best to just stay out of their way. Fortunately, most people like that think I'm weird and avoid me to begin with.
And..... what does this have to do with.......... anything? (See also: every other thread you've ever started.)
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A "perfect" purse, A "perfect" hairdo (even though nobody else really cares about it), A "perfect" wedding (even though she has a 50% chance of divorce), A "perfect" paint color for the Baby's Bedroom (even thought The Baby does not care about it), A "perfect" little comment within a chatty conversation (even though it will be forgotten by everybody), A "perfect" outfit for an occasion (even though she still looks fat).
Even the chatty little response from a waitress after writing down an order for lunch, "Perfect!! I'll Bring That For You!", when it is her job to bring it for you. Lol.
So, What is it? Do they need to compensate for generalized incompetence by finding "perfect" little things which are superfluous?
Do they not realize that even if they get all of the "perfect" things they want, they will still be far from being "perfect" when it comes to:
1.) "Perfect" honesty?
2.) "Perfect" grasp of material reality in The World?
3.) "Perfect" ability to take care of even their own basic needs, without getting some guy, some employer, or The Government to help them? "Can SOMEBODY Help Me Here ... ??!!"
4.) "Perfect" responsibility for their screw ups which cost other people money, time, and resources? "Well, I Just Didn't Think It Would Happen Like That!!" "I Didn't Mean To Do That!!" "I Just Couldn't Help It!!" "I Was Just Trying To ... !!"
5.) "Perfect" integrity in decision making? "I Just Wanted To Change My Mind!!" "I Just Forgot To Ask About That ... !!" "I Didn't Think It Mattered!!"
So, should we sympathize and go along with these women who think they must have "perfect" things, when their "need" for it is just spurious and self centered?
The only answer I can think of is that they otherwise would start crying and shrieking. Lol. Especially if they are in PMS or menopause.
Lol.
Thanks for this. I needed a good chuckle this afternoon.
Oh sweetie don't you know? It is because every man is looking for the perfect little woman.
Nope.
Men usually marry the low maintenance women, with the "Girl Next Door" personality, who can relax, rather than some shrieking twit. The shrieking twits always get divorced. And, the dorky tall girls who go around with a "Poor Little Me! I Am Just Too Tall, I Hope Nobody Makes Fun Of Me!" attitude usually never marry, or just become Lesbos.
Men usually marry the low maintenance women, with the "Girl Next Door" personality, who can relax, rather than some shrieking twit. The shrieking twits always get divorced. And, the dorky tall girls who go around with a "Poor Little Me! I Am Just Too Tall, I Hope Nobody Makes Fun Of Me!" attitude usually never marry, or just become Lesbos.
Only hypersensitive and thin skinned little hearts think "hate" is the only kind of aversive response to people and their ideas. At the office we know the "Really Pretty" women are indeed good for a few things.
Only hypersensitive and thin skinned little hearts think "hate" is the only kind of aversive response to people and their ideas. At the office we know the "Really Pretty" women are indeed good for a few things.
Lol ...
Oh, excuse my...what was it..."hypersensitive and thin skinned little heart" .... I thought you did indeed 'hate' women, especially the pretty ones, cause let's face it, they don't really pay you much attention do they? It used to upset you but then you created this 'defense' which was to speak in such a way as to show as much disrespect and superiority to women as you can, to prove to yourself that it doesn't matter that they don't pay attention to you, cause you don't want it anyway.....
You're entitled to your opinion, but is this posted in the right forum?
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Oh, excuse my...what was it..."hypersensitive and thin skinned little heart" .... I thought you did indeed 'hate' women, especially the pretty ones, cause let's face it, they don't really pay you much attention do they? It used to upset you but then you created this 'defense' which was to speak in such a way as to show as much disrespect and superiority to women as you can, to prove to yourself that it doesn't matter that they don't pay attention to you, cause you don't want it anyway.....
What makes you think I "hate" pretty women? I already said they were good for a few things, didn't I ... ? Lol.
Actually, there are some of the Pretty Women who keep coming back to me for more ... They must like how I speak to them ...
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