Then please explain.
I already did.
Then despite your earlier attempt to reduce it down to just a god and humans, we both agree that the rules laid down by this god are indeed important.
God's Will is God.
Unless you're saying that the OT laws about stoning gays and smart mouthed kids were never important in the first place, you pretty much dodged the question.
Yeah, you're dodging. I didn't ask which of the rules are more important than others, I asked why you aren't following some of them if they "still apply" as you stated.
You're being obtuse again. Yeshua stated that in the observance of the two most important aspects of God's Will, our behavior sums up all of the rest. The point of the rules God gave His people is to help them to be more Godly and obedient to Him; to bring His people into a better relationship with Him. What is more Godly and more obedient than Grace, Mercy, Forgiveness and Love?