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glorydaz

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aikido7 said:
And I freely admit to them. I have no need to be defensive.

"I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do."--Paul in Romans 7.

I try to be honest and aware.
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Paul was speaking as a carnal wretched man, sold under sin ...a man under the law, as opposed to the Paul who said, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me".
 
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Paul was speaking as a carnal wretched man, sold under sin ...a man under the law, as opposed to the Paul who said, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me".
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Paul experienced the voice of Jesus and went on from there to take the gospel to “the nations.”

He was human. A plain human being who had the same physical and metal DNA we all do. He sweat, he shivered, he ate and he eliminated his waste.

It is normal to apply the best we see in the Bible to ourselves and leave the uncomfortable passages to others.

We are all carnal and wretched. Haven’t you noticed?

Paul gives comfort to those of us who are not perfect.
 
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glorydaz said:
Dry it up. Zip your lip. How about this one. "Because I said so, that's why."

Alright, I can see why you're going on and on about how children are raised. You've claimed I was raised yada yada yada. When, in fact, it was you that was raised yada yada yada, and you're spending your entire adult life whining about it. Just grow up. It really isn't that hard. First step. Get over yourself and stop blaming your miserable life on your upbringing. Good grief. :nono:
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And I have never liked bullies--whether political or theological.

And I have always felt bad after hearing cruel remarks and taunts. I would rather people who like doing these things connect with their own feelings behind such childish behavior. And then fully feel them. Then I would prefer they give those strong feelings a name first. Then they can express their strong emotions like any other adult.

Thanks to the love and the teachings of Jesus, I have pretty healthy boundaries and I do not suffer fools gladly.

Just so you know.
 
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You're out of control. Settle down and do some centering prayer.

Geeze Louise.
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aikido7 said:
And I have never liked bullies--whether political or theological.

And I have always felt bad after hearing cruel remarks and taunts. I would rather people who like doing these things connect with their own feelings behind such childish behavior. And then fully feel them. Then I would prefer they give those strong feelings a name first. Then they can express their strong emotions like any other adult.

Thanks to the love and the teachings of Jesus, I have pretty healthy boundaries and I do not suffer fools gladly.

Just so you know.
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I know I've made an impact when they respond to the same post twice. :banana:


I have connected with my feelings, and I fully feel them. :thumb:


If you had "healthy boundaries" you would "suffer fools gladly". I have healthy boundaries and I suffer you just fine. I don't feel bad because you lecture me and taunt me about how you have imagined I was raised. I'm even able to find humor in what you say. I don't get all sad and sulky when you whine and act like a baby. So, you need to examine yourself....figure out why you're so insecure that you have to stew and stew over a post that was never intended to wound your fragile ego. Not only stew but respond to twice. Will you need to go back again and again until you are finally able to move on? :chew:
 
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I know I've made an impact when they respond to the same post twice. :banana:
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Unfortunately, you are dealing with a poster who cannot organize his thoughts at times and has to post two or more times!


I have connected with my feelings, and I fully feel them. :thumb: [/QUOTE]Or you have felt a passing sign about your feelings and have run the other way. When I have to take someone else’s experience of me seriously, I often don’t feel like facing the truth they are telling about me.


If you had "healthy boundaries" you would "suffer fools gladly". I have healthy boundaries and I suffer you just fine. I don't feel bad because you lecture me and taunt me about how you have imagined I was raised. I'm even able to find humor in what you say. I don't get all sad and sulky when you whine and act like a baby. So, you need to examine yourself....figure out why you're so insecure that you have to stew and stew over a post that was never intended to wound your fragile ego. Not only stew but respond to twice. Will you need to go back again and again until you are finally able to move on? :chew:[/QUOTE]

Noted. It is what it is.

Let me tell you one thing: I was SO insecure and unhappy as a baby that I have been told that I emerged from my mother crying and screaming!!! They also told me it was evident I found my new life very uncomfortable.

In your world, how do you make your own distinctions about

--pointing out the behavior you do not like from
--feeling like your “fragile ego” is being wounded?

I need to learn ways of posting to you that don’t come across as having a fragile ego. Which I don’t. I just have definite ways that I want to be treated by others.

If you can show me your own legitimate standard for recognizing the differences between the two, please let me know. I’m always up for a lesson (given respectfully, of course).

Can you do that?
 
glorydaz

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aikido7 said:
Unfortunately, you are dealing with a poster who cannot organize his thoughts at times and has to post two or more times!


I have connected with my feelings, and I fully feel them. :thumb:
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Or you have felt a passing sign about your feelings and have run the other way. When I have to take someone else’s experience of me seriously, I often don’t feel like facing the truth they are telling about me.


If you had "healthy boundaries" you would "suffer fools gladly". I have healthy boundaries and I suffer you just fine. I don't feel bad because you lecture me and taunt me about how you have imagined I was raised. I'm even able to find humor in what you say. I don't get all sad and sulky when you whine and act like a baby. So, you need to examine yourself....figure out why you're so insecure that you have to stew and stew over a post that was never intended to wound your fragile ego. Not only stew but respond to twice. Will you need to go back again and again until you are finally able to move on? :chew:
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Noted. It is what it is.

Let me tell you one thing: I was SO insecure and unhappy as a baby that I have been told that I emerged from my mother crying and screaming!!! They also told me it was evident I found my new life very uncomfortable.

In your world, how do you make your own distinctions about

--pointing out the behavior you do not like from
--feeling like your “fragile ego” is being wounded?

I need to learn ways of posting to you that don’t come across as having a fragile ego. Which I don’t. I just have definite ways that I want to be treated by others.

If you can show me your own legitimate standard for recognizing the differences between the two, please let me know. I’m always up for a lesson (given respectfully, of course).

Can you do that?
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1. It would help if you learned how to use the quote function. (I fixed it for you.)

2. If you have definite ways you want to be treated by others, why do you come on a public forum? If people have to walk on eggshells to keep you happy then......to put it mildly, it ain't gonna happen.

3. I won't have to think about your having a fragile ego if you would stop talking about your feelings, and droning on about how mean I am. Just pick a topic and talk about that. Ditch the lectures about how to talk and just get busy and talk. Don't lecture and don't whine. Simple.
 
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glorydaz said:
1. It would help if you learned how to use the quote function. (I fixed it for you.)
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I just type in the "quote" signs. I understand it but that does not mean I always do it correctly

2. If you have definite ways you want to be treated by others, why do you come on a public forum? If people have to walk on eggshells to keep you happy then......to put it mildly, it ain't gonna happen.
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I "have a life" away from the computer but that does not mean I hide from people. Like I said, it doesn't matter whether I am online or out in the world. It's all a "public forum" and my communication is always used in the service of communicating with others. I do not like bullies, whether they are online or out in the world. I want to be treated with respect and dignity wherever I am.

3. I won't have to think about your having a fragile ego if you would stop talking about your feelings, and droning on about how mean I am. Just pick a topic and talk about that. Ditch the lectures about how to talk and just get busy and talk. Don't lecture and don't whine. Simple.
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I don't see anything wrong with standing up for what I want and asking for it. I think you are equating having a "fragile ego" with striving for human rights and dignity for myself.

But if I in fact DO have a "fragile ego" I still want to have a fair hearing and not have to contend with judgment and name-calling.

In my life, whenever anyone tells me I am hurting their feelings, I apologize and start respecting their own boundaries.

That's the way I was raised and that's how I am after learning how to raise up my own daughter.
 
glorydaz

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I want to be treated with respect and dignity wherever I am.

That's the way I was raised and that's how I am after learning how to raise up my own daughter.
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Oh really? You assume you're entitled to that do you?

Then you need to stop lecturing people, and insisting you know why they react to your lecturing the way they do. That way they may have a reason to respect you. And you need to stop assuming their responses are intended in the "mean" way that you take them.


In addition, you are in no position to lecture others....especially about the Scripture with which you play fast and loose. Second, you need to realize there are those of us who do not believe in playing the hypocrite just to keep from hurting the "feelings" of those who need to get over themselves. We simply speak our minds and expect people to act like adults and not take everything personally.
 
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