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Tambora

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Just because I stand fast against un-Christian and immature behavior does not mean I agree with it.

You are feeling boastful about your immaturity and inability to see what is in front of your nose. You make your faults and misunderstandings into a tower of righteousness. There is nothing talented about mocking other people. Schoolyard bullies know this full well.

People who say how they feel need to be paid attention to and listened to.

Show me the specific places where I have mocked anyone.

You are making me confused. Somehow you know that all of the posts in this thread are not made in hurt or anger at your replies.
Are you for real?????

This whole thread is about reps.
REPS, for crying out loud!!!!
You have flipped your lid if you think reps on internet forum are anything worth getting upset about.

TOL may not be your cup of tea.
But I just love this place!
 

Tambora

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Jesus has allowed me to accept criticism from others and to give it to others in ways that are adult, respectful and honest.

Even though you call me "stupid" and tell me to shut my mouth, I am not required to mock you or attack you. And I won't. I don't have to. I think enough of myself and don't have to elevate me in others' eyes by cruel taunts and immature reactions.
Well, give yourself a brownie button!
 

glorydaz

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Jesus has allowed me to accept criticism from others and to give it to others in ways that are adult, respectful and honest.

Even though you call me "stupid" and tell me to shut my mouth, I am not required to mock you or attack you. And I won't. I don't have to. I think enough of myself and don't have to elevate me in others' eyes by cruel taunts and immature reactions.

Did I call you stupid? Do you know the difference between someone telling you to stop being stupid and saying, "Hey, stupid, you're one brick shy of a load."

One is a cruel taunt and one is good advice. See if you can figure out which is which.
 

aikido7

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Are you for real?????

This whole thread is about reps.
REPS, for crying out loud!!!!
You have flipped your lid if you think reps on internet forum are anything worth getting upset about.

TOL may not be your cup of tea.
But I just love this place!
I have always shown a willingness to live and let live and let others have their interpretations of life, love and the Bible.

Anywhere I go, I stand up for myself. I do not suffer fools gladly when they act ignorantly or immaturely. That's the time when I share a little of my Christian faith and my own personal development. I know how to maintain my boundaries no matter what happens. And I thank my belief in Jesus that I can now do that.

That may not be your cup of tea, but it is certainly mine.
 

aikido7

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Did I call you stupid? Do you know the difference between someone telling you to stop being stupid and saying, "Hey, stupid, you're one brick shy of a load."

One is a cruel taunt and one is good advice. See if you can figure out which is which.
The good advice is to be accountable for our feelings and talk about them by starting with the word "I."

"I don't believe you" is better than "You're a liar!"

A person who taunts "You jest don't get it, do ya?" is not a helpful way to say someone else is stupid.
 

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The good advice is to be accountable for our feelings and talk about them by starting with the word "I."

"I don't believe you" is better than "You're a liar!"

A person who taunts "You jest don't get it, do ya?" is not a helpful way to say someone else is stupid.

When someone repeatedly claims that you have negged them dozens of times a day, because you gave them 1 or 2, they are a liar.

Why would i say i dont believe you, when i know what i did and even had a mod verify it, because of the repeated lies?

When someone lies about something, they are a liar, plain and simple.
 

aikido7

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Oh my, you don't know what a huge relief it is to hear you say that. I was so worried about my instincts. :chuckle:
All human behavior has underlying good intentions and instincts.



When you grow up you'll find out that being mature means being free to tell it like it is. It's called being retired from the game of trying to sound like something you're not. Take it or leave it.
I think its in our toddlerhood when we begin to test the limits of "telling it like it is."

We have to help our children fully feel their emotions, give a name to them and learn to express them like an adult.



Growing up the way I did? Wow, we have a mystic in our midst.
People today are surprised in the research in and knowledge of human stages of growth. We know much more than we knew even 20 years ago.



Well, isn't that too bad. You don't like to be mocked. Then stop being stupid....open your ears and shut your mouth. :)
When someone does not want to be mocked they need to let other people know. If they were raised right, they will state their wishes elegantly and honestly.
 

aikido7

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Ahhh, the political correctness hall-monitor.

:mock: political correctness
We would rather be invited to engage in negotiation and problem-solving rather than be called names.

Sometimes the immature among us have to put up with "hall monitors."

"Political correctness" has to do with trying to treat others with respect.
 

glorydaz

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I see you being more childish and stubborn. I believe it is something you have picked up in your early childhood training--spiritual or inherited from your family dynamics.

The sadism and cruelty in these posts is not some infectious disease that strikes a person all of a sudden.

It has a long prehistory in childhood and always originates in the desperate fantasies of a child who is searching for a way out of a hopeless situation.

Well, give yourself a brownie button!

:listen: He must be taking his first class in child psychology at the local Community College, and he thinks he is giving criticisms that are "adult, respectful and honest".
 

glorydaz

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We would rather be invited to engage in negotiation and problem-solving rather than be called names.

Sometimes the immature among us have to put up with "hall monitors."

"Political correctness" has to do with trying to treat others with respect.

Oh, would we? :chew:
 

aikido7

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:listen: He must be taking his first class in child psychology at the local Community College, and he thinks he is giving criticisms that are "adult, respectful and honest".
It's a common feature of fundamentalist views to disparage and discount psychological research and even to mock education itself.

This is why Christianity and Islam are being marginalized by the world today.
 

aikido7

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Don't play innocent little worm.
And don't send me any more stupid videos of you in all your glory.
I will report you.

(But...I'm sure Michael will love your new haircut...and the goatee.) ;)


PJ trying to garner sympathy on TOL

Immature name-calling and childish threats.

What prevents you from taking his comments seriously and responding to them with respect?
 

Tambora

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He must be taking his first class in child psychology at the local Community College, and he thinks he is giving criticisms that are "adult, respectful and honest".
Sounds like a bunch of hippie voodoo to me.
 

aikido7

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Why should anyone take a lie seriously and respond to it with anything other than being called on it?
Taking a lie seriously is called "interpretation."
Particle physics has revealed that the opposite of a profound truth may very well be another profound truth.
 
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