This is about the first time I've taken issue with what you post buzz but I do with this. It's excessively harsh as who knows all the circumstances here and she certainly couldn't be expected to think her toddler of a child would shoot her inadvertently even with a round in the chamber. If she made a mistake as you suggest in regards to guns then she paid for it with her life and it's just a tragedy all ends up.
My apologies, AB.
It's a tragedy all around, from the culture which claims more guns are the answer to everything, to this woman's individual situation which made her think owning a gun was necessary, to the circumstances which led to and of her death.