Why should I believe your accusation about the man over his own assessment of himself? 1 Cor 2:11"...[O]ne who uses [insensitive terms] leaves himself open to accusation."
Jesus chose twelve men from different backgrounds with different personalities to be his disciples (Matt. 12:49, 50). God does not seek unanimity or uniformity. That would make for a bunch of Stepford Christians--all looking the same :freak:--all talking the same. :blabla: He is looking for unity (1 Pe 3:8). People have different personalities (Ge 25:27, Prov 22:6). Have patience with them before concluding that they are ugly (Prov 19:11, Ro 14:13, Eph 4:3). Accept differences in personalities (Ro 15:7, 14:13; Eph 4:2). Respect people (Ro 12:10). Love one another. Serve one another (Jn 13:35). Barron.
"People that look up to God rarely look down on other people." ~ Gene Barron