My father, mother, sister and I would go to church together when I was growing up. My mother and sister would talk about what people were wearing, style-wise, after church. They always had some catty things to say. My father always wore a hat before and after church because he was probably sensitive about being bald. He always tipped his had in acknowledgement when we passed a church with a cross on it. My mother and sister were deeply involved in fortune telling, ouija boards, Tarot cards, etc. So who was the better Christian? Of the three, I believe my father had the best chance of making it to heaven. But I really don't know if he was saved, or even if he still believed when he died.
Your post is just more nonsense. I don't mean to hurt your feelings but I can't see that you put much thought into what you write.