All Gods Elect and the non elect are by nature spiritually dead, dead in sin Eph 2:1,5; Col 2:13. This means that all men naturally are living without spiritual life and alienated from God. Eph 4:18
Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:
And you, that were sometime alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now hath he reconciled.
As such we are naturally in spiritual death Rom 8:6
6For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
All by nature are carnal minded, that cant be helped, even if we are very pious and religous and moral.
In this state we have no affections or motion towards God Rom 3:11
11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
Thats why Jesus says of man naturally Jn 6:44,65
44 No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day.
65 And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father.
Exactly Brother !
Because all men naturally are carnally minded and alienated from the Life of God Eph. 4:18, they are spiritually dead: Having no ability whatsoever to come to Christ because their own will is not free, but in bondage to, and blinded by satan 2 Cor. 4:3-4.
So their only Hope of coming to Christ is being one that God Discriminately Elected in His Son Eph. 1:4-7 to be a partaker of His Grace Rom. 3:24, and thus being given Spiritual Life John 3:3-6.
But it is not by meeting any condition or performance on their part by exercising their own will which they imagine to be free. For it's God's Will that controls all others' will Dan. 4:35.